当第一次听见“父爱如山，母爱如水”这句话的时候，我一脸茫然，并不知道这句话的真正含义，随着一天天长大，经历了一些事情，我才深刻地体会到这句话的含义。爸爸对我严厉又慈祥，他的爱稳重如山，指引我在生活学习中越来越坚强，妈妈对我很温柔，总是笑眯眯的，说起话来轻言细语，她的爱如潺潺流水，滋润着我幼小的心灵。

妈妈虽然每天工作很繁忙，但是总会抽出时间来陪伴我，有时陪我读书写字，有时陪我玩玩游戏，这些都是我最开心的'时候。但有时也会有不愉快的事情发生哦。有一天，妈妈急急忙忙去上班，把手机忘在家里。我拿起手机摸来摸去，爱不释手，一不小心把手机摔在了地板上，屏幕顿时被摔成了“大花脸”，我被吓坏了，目瞪口呆地看着眼前发生的一切……正当我惊慌失措地想着对策的时候，妈妈回来了。当她看见被摔坏的手机时，脸上的笑容一瞬间凝固了，脸色也“由晴转阴”，十分难看，仿佛眼里还闪着泪花。

我看着妈妈伤心难过的样子，结结巴巴地把事情的经过告诉妈妈，等着她的严厉批评或者一顿打。出乎意料的是，妈妈竟然微笑着把我揽入怀里说：“手机摔坏了你也很心疼吧！没事，等会你跟妈妈一起去把它修好就行了！以后可得小心哦。”听完妈妈的话，我感觉一股暖流流遍全身，忍不住哭喊着：“妈妈，对不起，我错了！”

这就是我妈妈平凡而又伟大的爱，她爱我，教育我，包容我，小心翼翼地呵护我，她的爱像春天里的溪水，柔软而温暖，意味深长，陪伴着我走过春夏秋冬。妈妈，我想大声地说：我爱你。

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各位领导、同事，大家上午好！

很荣幸能参加本次师德演讲比赛，我演讲的题目是"爱的教育".爱的教育既是一本书的名字，也是我给自己的职业定的一个标准。很喜欢冰心的一句话"情在左，爱在右，走在生命的两旁，随时播种，随时开花",这句话很有诗意，也契合爱的教育。

各行各业的职业道德各有其自身的特殊要求，师德则是我们应具备的最基本的道德素养，学识只能满足学生一时的求知愿望，真正打动学生内心的是人格和道德的力量。

走上工作岗位的第一年，成为了我人生中最丰富的一段记忆，我热爱这一职业，热爱着自己的第一批学生，伴随着他们的成长，我也在成长着。

刚接手那个班的时候，学生整体素质偏低，面对这一情况，我的大脑一片空白，没有计划，没有目标，茫然失措不知如何是好？后来一想，难题既然在眼前，那就积极面对，全力以赴。课余时间我开始关注学生的成长，并坚信所谓的"学困生"是可以有所提高的。针对学生厌学、不按时完成作业等问题，我做了大量细致的思想教育工作，抓住一切机会对他们进行及时表扬，并且通过电话与家长沟通学困生在校的表现情况，家校互动，使他们在完成作业方面有了极大的好转。

在教育学生的过程中，我始终坚持的一点就是要保持师生人格上的平等，尊重学生是师爱的底线。我爱他们，虽然他们的成绩并不出色；我爱他们，虽然他们经常犯错误；我爱他们，()虽然他们并不能把我的话记在心底。可我既然成了他们的老师，就应该把全部的精力放在他们的身上。

当小升初考试结束后，魏贺给我发过一条短信，虽然他的语言不够流畅、优美，但是他写的很真实，虽然他的字数不足一百，但那是他的肺腑之言。寥寥数语表达出他那颗炽热的心对老师喜爱、信任的情感。看完后我的内心很矛盾，我为没能让他有一个好的成绩而自责，我也为自己对学生付出的关心、呵护没有付之东流而欣慰。我想正是我充分的尊重了他、真正的关心了他，这点打动了他那稚嫩的心灵。

作为一名普通教师，我的成绩不够辉煌，所以我无法慷慨激昂，我的故事也不够感人，所以我不能声泪俱下。我只有一颗真心和向学生们无限敞开的胸怀。

唐太宗说魏征是他的一面镜子，让他看到了自己的是与非，我把师德作为自己的标杆，告诉自己要知荣知辱，爱岗敬业。

"一日为师，终身为父"是告诫教师：一是即使只当了一天的教师，对学生也要负责。既然为"父",就要遵循"子不教，父之过"的古训。二是当学生有了成绩或成了气候，不要借"父"之名抬高自己或去借学生的"光".三是当学生犯了错，应主动承担起"子不教、父之过，教不严、师之惰"之责任。做到了这三点也才算是具有师德。

有人说过这样一句话"我愿做一滴水，我知道我很微小，当爱的阳光照射到我的身上的时候，愿意毫无保留地反射给别人",是的，我也愿意做这样的一滴水，把自己的热情、关心全部投射到学生身上。也有人说"你的心在哪里，你的幸福就在哪里",当我用心去感受教育人生的脉搏时，我感觉到不管是快乐还是忧伤，充实还是迷茫，都是我生命中挥之不去的幸福。

良好的师德形成并非一朝一夕，在制度约束的基础上，也需要广大教师提高自律意识，自觉改正工作中的不良习惯，在学生中树立起良好的师德。

一盏灯，一片昏黄，一简书，一杯淡茶，守着那份爱的教育，品读属于自己的辉煌。

我的演讲完毕，谢谢大家！

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尊敬的各位评委、各位老师：

大家好!今天我演讲的题目是《让奉献无声的流淌》。

我的父亲是一名教师，从小，我就梦想有一天我也能像父亲一样，立足三尺讲台，手持三寸粉笔，画出天地方圆，写尽学海茫茫。后来，我读到这样一首诗：我是一个老师，我把手中的红烛高高举起，只要我的鸽群能翱翔蓝天，只要我的雏鹰能鹏程万里，只要我的信念能坚如磐石，只要我的理想能永远年轻，我情愿燃烧我的每一寸躯体，让我的青春乃至整个的生命，在跳动的烛火中升华，在血液的鲜红中奔腾……

这首诗点燃了我心中的激情，澎湃起我教育的梦想!带着这份激情与梦想，我踏上了由知识、情感、理想、信念汇成的三尺讲台，从此，我拥有了一个和父亲一样神圣的名字——教师!

20xx年9月,我满怀兴奋来到了我梦想的党坝小学,在这短短的一年里，在那些看似平凡的党小教师身上我看到了曾给过我激情的那首小诗的内涵：这内涵不只体现在某个人身上，而是整个集体，他们承受着社会的压力，肩负着家长的厚望，承载着孩子们的期盼，有的带着一身病痛，装着药，却执著地站在讲台上;有的将孩子的作业带回家，带上老花镜，一本一本的细细地批改;有的甚至为了那份责任而永远的倒下了。他们甘于奉献，无怨无悔，用自己的青春和生命捍卫了职业的圣洁，用行动诠释了师德的真谛!他们把委屈和泪水装进心里，呈现给家长、孩子们的，永远是阳光灿烂的笑脸!他们的精神又何止是春蚕精神、蜡烛精神!

其实，在我们学区乃至整个教育系统那些任凭奉献无声流淌的教师又何止一二!而他们都是我要学习的楷模，于是，在工作中，我努力完成我所担任的每一项工作，竭尽全力把它做到最好，用心去呵护和教育着我的学生。我知道，教育是个艰巨的灵魂和性格塑造工程，那就让我在这半亩方田里勤耕力作，用自己丰富的知识，风趣的谈吐来征服的心。用自己端庄的仪表，得体的举止感化学生的行为。用自己高尚的师德，真诚的师爱塑造学生的灵魂，真正负起“三钱粉笔，万钧重担”的为师之责，让自己的生命之火为教育事业而熊熊燃烧!

捧着一颗心来，不带半根草去。作为教育工作者，从事着太阳底下最光辉的职业，我们倍感自豪。没有鲜花，我们却拥有满园的桃李芬芳;没有掌声，我们却赢得尊重与赞赏;没有金钱，我们却拥有孩子们心灵的阳光!我们播洒着期盼，收获着成功的喜悦;我们播洒着清贫，收获着社会的富强!既然选择了教育，就要无怨无悔。因为，我们是光荣的教育工作者!耿耿园丁意，拳拳育人心;身于幽谷处，孕育兰花香。让我们宣誓：任凭岁月更迭世事沧桑，任凭青春流逝憔悴红颜，我们依旧永守心中这盏希望之灯，倾心教育的热土，同铸不朽之师魂!最后，让我们一起再次重温那首小诗：我是一个老师，我把手中的红烛高高举起，只要我的鸽群能翱翔蓝天，只要我的雏鹰能鹏程万里，只要我的信念能坚如磐石，只要我的理想能永远年轻，我情愿燃烧我的每一寸躯体，让我的青春乃至整个的生命，在跳动的烛火中升华，在血液的鲜红中奔腾……

我的演讲完毕!

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my dear friends,

do you know what is the most precious and everlasting thing in the world? money? you may lose everything you have if you don't use money careful enough.youth?in one's long life youth is like a flash in the pan and no one in the world has the secret to keep his youth forever. beautiful look? many people pray that they can get hold of beauty, but it disappears far more quickly than they can imagine. and when they are in real trouble beauty itself feels helpless. a good job? as you grow older and your brain and hands can't work as fast as before. it will become other people's wealth.

then what is the most precious and everlasting thing in the world?

when you are far away from your family and feel especially lonely, who will you think of? when you stand on the crossroad in your life and don't know which way to choose, who will you think of? when you encounter greater difficulties than ever and need other's encouragement, who will you think of? when you decide to make the greatest decision in your favorite course, which shed cheerful tears when see you get achievements? whose wholehearted blessing will be always with you no matter how far you will go?

yes, its mother who you will always think of and it's mother's love that will be always be with you.

i once heard a moving story about a mother. two children were drawn into the flood and the situation was very dangerous. their mother jumped into the water without hesitation. but the mother couldn't swim at all. jumping into the water means she might lose her life. but at that time she had no time to think about herself. she just wanted to try all means to save her children. maybe her courage touched the god. the miracle happened. she finally succeeded in saving her both children. and she, of course, felt extremely exhausted.

my friends, mother’s love is the greatest love. mother’s love is the safest love. no matter you are happy or depressed, rich or poor, mother’s love will always stay with you.

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敬爱的老师、亲爱的同学们：

曾经看过这样一则故事，感慨颇多：说是一个神想看看地狱和天堂有什么区别，他先来到了地狱里，他发现这里的鬼魂都用一个长长的勺子，围在一个大锅旁，个个愁眉苦脸，面黄肌瘦，因为他们无法把食物送到自己的嘴里。这个神又来到天堂，发现这些天使也围在大锅旁，拿着长长的勺子，不同的是这些天使个个红光满面，谈笑风生，原来他们是把勺子里的食物送到别人的嘴里。这就是地狱与天堂的区别，这也告诉我们互助才会产生爱，才会使每个人都享受到幸福。

当我们看到一位老人过马路，伸出搀扶之手，这不就是爱吗？

当我们看到灾区人民那苦难的生活，我们尽我所能拿出所有，这捐助不也是一种爱吗？

当我们看到白血病儿童那无助的眼睛，听到他们扎心的哭声，我们心中最柔软的部分被触动，这种同情之心同样是一种爱。

当别人做错了事，我们原谅了他们；当别人成功了，我们轻声的鼓励；当别人痛苦了，我们与其倾心交谈……“爱”多么抽象的字眼，但它却可以外化一些具体的事去体现。一个对别人充满爱的人，他也一定会享受到别人的爱。帮助别人，与其说是为了别人，不如说是为了自己。可世界上有多少人是这么想，他们只顾自己的蝇头小利，结果什么事都是“竹篮打水——一场空”。

我又想起了那首歌，“只要人人都献出一点爱，世界将变成美好的人间”。

愿世界充满爱！

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老师们、同学们：

教育家陶行知曾说过：“真的教育是心心相印的活动，唯独心里发出来的，才能打到心的深处。”我以为作为一名教书育人的人，应该用是一颗真挚的心去教育、引导、启迪自己的学生，用爱心来打造自己的教育事业。

“爱”是一种心理活动，在教学过程中，如果老师能将爱学生放在自己教学的首位，具备“学生的心灵”，用“学生的大脑去思考”，用“用学生的眼睛去看待”，用“学生的情感去体验”，用“学生的`兴趣去爱好”，这样的走进学生的心理，单纯的教育就变成了爱的教育，那他的教育就会迸发出更强大的优势，何愁教育的滞后呢?

我在教学中，正是正确理解了这一点，从学生出发，想学生之所想，急学生之所急，把关爱学生，以爱施教当做自己教学的核心主题来抓，取得了良好的成绩，现将自己的具体做法总结如下：

一、关爱学生，做到深刻了解学生

我去年接管五年级后，上第一节语文课时，我发现班级部分学生学习目的不明确，作业有完任务的现象。班上有个女生，表现散漫，学习不用功，总是抱着完任务的态度。经过我仔细观察，发现她头脑聪明，于是我便常让她回答问题，并经常和她谈心，不断鼓励她。在遇到困难时，我也悉心关照，她的钢笔坏了，我送给她一支新的。她家离学校远，午饭不回家，在学校啃冷馒头，这时我常让她到我房里喝开水或是给她烤馒头，或倡导离学校近的女同学，带她到自己家吃点热饭。从此她把老师的关怀当作动力，逐渐变得关心集体，遵守纪律，学习也用功了，很快跃入班级优秀学生的行列。第一次月考，她竟然成为班级第三名。这时我深深的感觉到爱是不会空播的。

二、关爱学生，就应该热爱每一个学生，尤其要爱差生，信其师，方信其道。

教学中如果老师动辄讽刺、斥责，差生就会产生一种屈辱感，师生关系就会越来越冷漠，学生的自尊心就会丧失殆尽，就会产生“破罐子破摔”的思想。陶行知先生说的好：“你的教鞭下有瓦特、你的冷眼中有牛顿、你的讥笑里有爱迪生。”作为教育工作者，关爱学生，平等的对待每一个学生，是教师的天职。爱是阳光，爱是雨露，好学生需要爱，差学生更需要爱。我在教学中不偏谁也不向谁，以尊重全体学生为前提，处理问题不主观臆断，不偏听偏信，不在学生心中结下疙瘩或留下阴影。要同学生平等沟通，和谐交流，真正建立起在爱的光环下的亲近师生关系。

三、关爱学生，还要不失时机的表扬学生，激励学生。

在我认为，爱是激发学习的源泉和动力。凡是孩子，都喜欢接受好的信息，这是每个人与生俱来的本性，脱离人的本性教育，那就是无源之水、无本之木。我曾经经历过这样一件事：我班上一名男生，平时数学学习很好，语文上表现的则是不按时做作业，背记不及时，考试总是处于及格线的边缘，要么50几分，要么刚好60分，总是不理想。之后，我每次进教室，都去抚摸他的头，看看他的作业，问问他的冷暖，上课积极提问他，只要他有点滴的进步，我就表扬，肯定;在他的作文、周记等一切作业上，以激励的语言鼓励他......，并在考试前和他打赌，给他定了奋斗目标，只要他超越了就选他当班长，结果如我所愿，他不但完成了目标，并一跃成为班上语文成绩最高分。这一转变，使我更加坚定了自己爱心教育的方式，当然，我也兑现了自己的承诺。总之，我认为对学生的教育，要以爱为本，把爱心阳光般无私地撒向学生，把慈爱的微笑带给学生，温暖每一个学生。倾注爱心，关注学生的细微变化，是我找到学生进步的最佳时机。

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各位领导、各位老师：

大家好!

有一首歌时常被人唱起，我也时常给我的学生唱过、教过。今天我把这首歌的名字当作我演讲的题目：《长大后我就成了你》，希望大家认可!歌中唱到：

1.“小时候我以为你很美丽，领着一群小鸟飞来飞去”，“长大后我就成了你，才知道那间教室放飞的是希望，守巢的总是你”。

2.“小时候我以为你很神气，说上一句话也惊天动地”，“长大后我就成了你，才知道那块黑板写下的是真理擦去的是功利”。

这是对热爱教育工作的教师真实生动的写照，唱出了教师工作的爱和责任。

(一：教师的爱)

爱，是一种情感，是一种不要求回报的宽容、理解、包容和接受。教师的爱就是对学生的尊重、爱护和信任，使学生真正感到来自教师的温暖和呵护。

教师的爱是一种“一日为师，终生为父”最高尚的爱。不同于母亲的爱，不是一直搀着孩子“走路”，也不是把孩子抱在怀里，而是把学生装在心里。

教师的爱是“捧着一颗心来，不带半根草去”的一种无私的爱，不求回报。教师在工作中，无论遇到学生、家庭、领导多大的不理解、误解和歧视，也决不因此而影响到对学生的教诲和关爱，所以教师的爱就是一种“吃的是草，挤出的是奶和血”的无私的爱。

教师的爱是一种神圣的爱。因为“疼爱自己的孩子是本能，而热爱别人的孩子是神圣!”教师的爱是公平的，她不分贫穷和贵贱。

( 二：教师的责任)

教师的岗位是社会平凡的岗位，做着貌似“平凡”的工作。然而，我们都知道“一个孩子的失败，对一个教师来说，只是几十分之一的失败，但对于一个家庭来说，就是百分之百的失败。”所以教师的工作是一种高度社会责任性的工作。

教师是“春蚕到死，蜡炬成灰，”“化作春泥”的人。

常常听到有人说：“你是老师啊!不错啊!一天就那么几节 2

课，动动嘴就行了，风吹不着，雨淋不到的，一年还有寒暑假”。每每听到这些，我们只能是一笑了之。我明白，只有从事了教师工作的人才能真正体会到这份工作的辛苦。

“教师吃的是良心饭1这句朴实的话语道出了教师精神的实质。在这个平凡的世界里，我们需要千千万万，实实在在，脚踏实地于平凡岗位的有责任心的人。

世上有很多东西，给予他人时，往往是越分越少，唯有一样东西却是越分越多。那就是爱!教师的爱是春风化雨、润物无声的，付出时，我们没有想到工资，没有想到回报，是一种责任的驱使。

泰戈尔说：“花的事业是甜蜜的，果的事业是珍贵的，让我干叶的事业吧，因为叶总是谦逊地垂着她的绿荫的。”是啊，选择了教师，就是选择了叶的事业,就是选择了奉献。

托尔斯泰说：“如果一个教师把热爱事业和热爱学生相结合，他就是一个完美的教师。”是的，作为一名教师，一位完美的教师是应该既热爱事业又热爱学生。要把教育学生的过程看做是爱学生的过程。没有爱就没有教育!

从第一天当老师起，我始终平等的教学、公平对待每一位学生。学生有问必答，有求必应，尽心尽力，尽职尽责。平凡的

琐事中,课堂上的一个眼神、一声赞语，病时的一句问候、一次补课，课间的一番闲聊、一场游戏，假日的一份牵挂、一趟远足.........不管哪位学生思想上有包袱，我都愿意帮助化解;无论谁有了点滴的进步，我都要送去一声鼓励，送去一片挚爱。我爱我的学生，我坚信爱心可以融化坚冰，用真心会打动学生!

当我走进校园，走进教室，走上讲台，一种神圣的责任感和使命感便油然而生。

学校无小事，教育无小事。每一张教案，每一堂课，每一次作业，都需要去认真对待;上学、放学，课间活动，午间休息，都需要去密切关注;思想、心理、学习、身体、个性发展，都需要去全面关心;活泼好动的、沉默寡言的、优秀的、顽皮的、聪明的、落后的，都需要去细心呵护。教师工作是琐碎的，教育无它，只有“爱与责任”。

选择了教师，就选择了艰辛，选择了一辈子都放不下的使命。紧张的清晨，繁忙的白天，不眠的夜晚，疲倦的周末，这是每个教师日复一日的工作节奏。

“起始于辛劳，收结于平淡。”我常常想，当白发苍苍的我柱着拐杖回到工作了一辈子的校园，也许会遭遇“儿童相见不相识，笑问客从何处来”的凄然，但我坚信：校园的一草一木肯

定还记得我曾经忙碌的身影，那些已为人父、已为人母的学生的心中依然记得我年轻的容颜、鲜活的背影。我的生命在学生的身上延续着，我的价值在学生的发展中得到充分体现，所以，到那时，我依然会义无反顾地感叹：这辈子，我无悔于我的选择，无悔于我的生命，做老师，真好!

最后，让我依旧用这首歌的第二段歌词来结束我的演讲吧：

3.“小时候我以为你很神秘，让所有的难题都成了乐趣”，“长大后我就成了你，才知道那支粉笔画出的是彩虹，洒下的是泪滴”。

4.“小时候我以为你很有力，你总是喜欢把我们高高举起”，“长大后我就成了你，才知道那块讲台举起的是别人，奉献的是自己”。

谢谢大家!!!

写关于爱的演讲稿篇8

ever since the dawning of the history of mankind, there have been myriads of diversifed inventions, discoveries, and even explorations of the mysteries of the universe. in fact, the human beings are so intelligent that we have solved almost all kinds of problems we have confronted with.

however, nobody has ever made out what the word “love” really connotes, not even the most famous people such as great politicians, saints and philosophers can clarify the meaning of “love”，neither can they deal with the various affairs concerning love. love is like a huge boundless net that shrouds us all in. we can neither break away from it nor escape from it. like it or not, we are always entangled in it. it is an invisible net without any form, that shrouds in different people from different angels; it is a merciless net that upsets us or even tortures us to death. it is also a supreme net which almost no human can surpass. even if they are heroes, emperors, wise men or saints, they can do nothing but show their helplessness in its face. those who can breathe through the holes of the net should be regarded beyond commonness and vulgarity. love can bring us temporary comfort and happiness, but mostly they bring about annoyance and sufferings. maybe this is the reason why many people have seen through the illusions of the mortal world. however it is not so easy to break away from this boundless, ever-existing and indifferent net of love.

love is varied and changeable, but roughly it can be divided into three categories: family love, fraternal love and amatory love. not like monkey king who jumped out of the rocks, we were all born after mother's pregnancy of about nine months, hence we have countless relatives without any choice: parents, grand-parents, and grand-parents-in-law, uncles and aunties, brothers and sisters, etc. and once looking at the genealogical tree, we'll see no end. family love is what everyone longs for, but the warmth and support from our beloved ones are what everyone yearns for the most. but how many of us are determined to contribute to our beloved one? and how many don't expect repayment and relaxed. conscience even if they have the desire and preparation to contribute to their beloved. the distance between relatives is different and so are their expectations. but since it's very difficult to know how much we should expect, a lot of worries and distresses emerge.

parents always expect their children to show their filial obedience, or at least pay them frequent visits after they have got married. if the children fail to do this, they feel hurt and upset, and they'll even complain about their children, because they just can't understand why their children don't care about them after what they have done for the children for so many years to bring them up. nevertheless, one's experience determines his ideology. young children are naturally attached to their parents, but when they grow up, specially when they have made their own friends, and got married, what they need most is independence and freedom, and parents sometimes might become their burden. once there is generation gap, it becomes more difficult to communicate and this keeps them away from their parents. objectively speaking, they need more independence in order to achieve success. in the present society, what the children want to have most is the economic support from their parents, not their moral support or guidance. they would complain if your economic support is not up to their expectations. the love from uncles and aunties would naturally dwindle after they have had their own children. only the love from grand-parents and grand parents-in-law is pure and demands no repayment, and they are also too old to wait for any repayment. as for the distant relatives, their love depends on their needs, just as the old saying goes “the poor have no friends even if they live in downtown while the rich have distant relatives even if they live in deep mountains”。 granny liu, a distant kinsfolk, in a dream of the red mansions , claims kinship with the wealthy jia family, thinking that she may benefit from it in some ways. liu might have run away without any traces if the jia family had been a poor one. another saying goes “close neighbors are better than distant relatives.” the most difficult is to manage the relatives when doing business together, just as what the tv series program liu laogen discloses. it is all right to stay poor together, but as soon as the business grows prosperous, the group will become estranged and even dissolve because of the unfair distribution. family love is like a maze which we shouldn't go too far into it, otherwise, we'll surely get lost. love is a bilateral matter and unilateral love can only lead you to nowhere in spite of your good intentions. family love is, sometimes, like an arranged marriage, leaving no choices to you. due to the different experiences and tastes, staying together temporarily can be entertaining, while living together for a long time can only be boring due to the lack of common interest and understanding. how can we communicate with each other without understanding? parents have the duty to support the children who are not yet economically independent, and children have the responsibility to provide for the elderly parents who are lack of economic abilities to support themselves. except these two kinds of duties which we must fulfill, other kinds of love become conventional formalities such as paying visit to the sick or the dead and giving presents to the newly-born etc.

no love among relatives has become a normal phenomenon which needn't to be fussed about. what's worse is when love is contaminated by money. sooner or later we will get hurt. the sooner we get out of this net of love, the more we can preserve beautiful memories.

we are not living in vacuum, and the society is formed of various kinds of people. as long as we want to live, study, or work, we have to contact, communicate and cooperate with others. those who enjoy common interests, mutual understanding, common undertakings and common benefits become friends.

some friends are called fair-weather friends, because they are together just for entertaining themselves by eating, drinking, and gossiping. once there's nothing to eat and drink, their friendship is finished. some are spiritual friends who share common ambitions, pursuits and education. “they enjoy talking and laughing with the great talents and never make friends with the good-for-nothings”. the best examples would be yu boya and zhong ziqi of the ancient times who are famous not only for their lofty music but mainly for their lofty characters and mutual understanding and appreciation. they cared very little about material wealth, so their friendship is known as “gentlemen's friendship as pure as water”.the third type of friendship belong to those who show their utter devotion to each other. they are ready not only to share weal and woe but also to die for each other, like the three brothers liu, guan and zhang in the novel romance of the three kingdoms. . we all wish to have this kind of friendship, but it's of great difficulty for the ordinary people to be as devoted as they were.

fraternal love or friendship is wide-ranged and flexible. generally speaking, everyone is our friend, just as chairman mao says “our friends are all over the world”。 but transcend age, sex, nationality, state and economic conditions. to them the most important is common benefit, common interest and understanding. friendship is formed during the course of studying, working and fighting. the battle companions who have survived many hazards usually enjoy long-lasting friendship.

however, fraternal love is not stable. being away for too a long time, losing all common benefits, friends will become estranged. once their interest has changed, they no longer understand each other, and even this would harm friendship. at all times and in all countries, many close friends and battle companions who once worked together and fought together became enemies in the end. quiet a few of the emperors in ancient china even killed those who had helped them found their dynasties. the taiping heavenly kingdom would not have failed if it hadn't been for the contending and massacring among the those who first rose in rebellion at the beginning of the uprising. what else we need to pay attention to is that some friends, after being away from each other for too long a time, have lost so much of their original characters that when meeting again, you will feel that you are still the same as you were, while they are no longer themselves. they may have the same feeling about you, so sometimes it's better not to meet each other again. as the chinese proverb goes “friendship can not last for three years and flowers can not stay in blossom for three months”.it's not so easy to maintain real friendship which needs mutual understanding, tolerance and sacrifice. any kinds of harsh treatment will damage friendship.

amatory love has been a mystery for ages. there's neither a criterion to judge nor a common rule to follow. nobody can tell the exact reasons why love emerges. it is not always because of beauty (the ugly doorkeeper quasimodo in the hunchback of notre dame is loved by the beautiful gypsy girl esmeralda),nor kindness (hitler also has his mistress),nor wisdom ( even the blockhead may sometimes marry a beautiful girl),nor strength (some love starts from sympathy).true love is like getting an electric shock, shaking our soul. it is a sweet dream, a kind of intoxication, indulgence, and endless passion.

true love doesn't need a long time to grow up, to make clear the family tree of the other, neither does it needs the time to look ahead and behind again and again. love is not marriage, which usually starts from love, but doesn't always depend on love to maintain. long-lasting marriage can eventually turn into a kind of family love, a kind of companionship which preserves the companion but loses the passion. love is often an wink of the eye, or a smile that hints mutual understanding. in spite of the great distance between them, people may fall in love incidentally. hence the saying “a distant marriage is tied up with a mysterious thread”. love needs passion, and it can stand bumps and stumbles, ups and downs, complaints and blames. when it turns into a pool of water, especially dead water, without any billows or waves, it's time for it to die.

delicacies are tasty, but eating everyday can still make one lose appetite. happiness is what everyone longs for, but too much happiness can spoil people who may not care about the happiness they already have. it's universal to live in happiness without knowing it. the same is true with love. very few people can love the same person passionately all their lives. all love stories come to an end no matter how beautiful they are, which also demonstrate the changeability of love. what one has been chasing wildly may turn into something one wants to get rid of desperately in the end. besides, love is usually blind, especially those who fall in love at the first sight. at the very beginning, both try to demonstrate their beautiful side and cover up their weakness. fooled by the mysterious color of love, one often mistakes the weaknesses as merits. however, as time passes by, frequent contacts make one bored, and even merits become defects, and then the end of love is coming. what's more, there are the capricious men and women who never take love seriously, leaving the devoted ones suffering alone. the saying that the devoted is always abandoned by the heartless has almost become the truth of love affairs. what we can't neglect is that love may turn into hatred, and lovers may also become enemies. the best proof is the numerous divorces.

even though true love is hard to find nowadays, we still can see some true and infatuated boys and girls who readily give up their families, their parents, their studies, their careers and even their lives for love. they love so passionately, crazily and wildly that they hate anyone who is against their love, and may even harm or kill him if he insists on his objection.

love has magical power that can exploit people's potential abilities, bring people's positive factors into full play, and provide people with the courage to face trials and hardships, to go through life and death, and even to risk universal condemnation. even in the ancient feudal society, some people were courageous enough to carry on clandestine love affairs. the examples in point were the courageous ones who dared to love the concubines of the emperors or the children of their foes. love also has miraculous power which can startle the universe and move the gods by attracting the heavenly celestials coming down to earth ( the love story of the cowboy and the weaving girl ),and by turning ghosts into human ( strange tales of liao-zhai ),love can transcend age and generation (dr. sun yat-sen and madam song qingling; luxun and xu guangping).love can show contempt for all conventions and prejudices; love can heal wounds and cure diseases, and love can readjust people's state of mind. of course, the result would be the opposite once it hurts.

great men yearn for true love even more than ordinary people. since the ancient times, so many heroes couldn't help falling into the trap of love that the sex-trap has been regarded as one of the 36 stratagems in military tactics. fuchai, the king of the wu state, couldn't be spared of this trap, and generals dongzhuo and lubu fell deeply into it while xiangyu, the king of the western chu state , bid farewell to his beloved concubine in tears. people may have to pay very high price, even their illustrious name for the love they long for even though it may last for only a very short time. nonetheless no one can tear himself away from love. people often say that their earthly affinity is not yet finished, but in fact it is the love affinity that is the most difficult to finish.

love is shapeless and priceless. we can blame nobody when captured by it. love can not be forced, nor can it be pretended. sympathy is not love, neither is gratitude. love must be generated from the heart, and expressed in actions. it can not be called love without passions and a deep longing from the bottom of the heart. there's no impassable gulf between family love and fraternal love. some family love may turn into friendship. at the same time, natural barriers doesn't exist either between fraternal love and amatory love. some friendship may develop into amatory love. the same is true with amatory love which may change into family love after a long time of mutual grinding and polishing.the closer the relationship, and the higher the expectations are, the more difficult it is to get along with each other. family love, fraternal love and amatory love are three main human feelings. if handled well, they can bring us extreme happiness, while handled improperly, will bring us great sufferings.

the present society is a world of dazzling money and dwindling human feeling contacts. most people hold a snobbish attitude. they only make friends with people of wealth and of high social status. just as zhen shiyen said in his expounding of the song “all good things must end” in a dream of the red mansions “while men with gold and silver by the chest, turn beggars scorned by all and dispossessed”.frankly speaking, however, if we regard money the first thing in whichever one of the three kinds of loves, it will depreciate and even become worthless.

love can not pretend, nor can it tolerate too much selfish motives. it is reported that an old man in jiangsu province left his million yuan heritage to his young housekeeper instead of his own children, because his own children didn't take care of him while the young housekeeper accompanied him through his last lonely and helpless years.

love is easily perceivable and perceptible. flattery words may be cheatable, but true love and false feelings can easily be distinguished. if the people you love only know how to spend your money, you should be careful of them. everyone can help you spend your money if you give them the chance. never turn your love into the slave of money.

love should be selfless, and feelings should be sincere. we shouldn't judge our feelings according to the distance of the relationship. everyone treasures love and nobody can fool himself or the others. a chinese saying goes: real heroes yearn even more for true love, and great men cherish tender love for their children.

we are the saint on earth, and should treasure our love, but we should know how much is good and where to stop. since there's no ever-lasting banquet, nor is there an endless love story, we should take the gains and losses of love with perfect composure. there's fragrant grass in every corner of the earth, and you can always find your love in this world.

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